How to be a lovable person

Check this out friends! As you know, I love reading articles over the www. And when I find it interesting, I tend to post it here for my future reads. So I’m sharing it here!

When you see your friend that has many friends and is loved by people around her, you start to wonder how she can become the centre of attention. She looks so interesting and every people feel comfort to stay near her. So, how to be a lovable person?

In fact, it is not too difficult to be a lovable person. Everything is started from you. Do you like to make friend with someone who is polite, kind, and friendly? I am sure you will answer ‘yes’ for that question. So, treat others like you want to be treated by others.

Basically, as human being, every body has positive and negative sides, including you. So just try to develop your positive sides and make up your negative sides, especially when you socialize with others. If you want to be treated well by your friends, just treat them well.

To be interesting person, you do not need to be other persons or act like others. Just be yourself. Life is too short for you when you try to be others. You also have many positive sides, so just show them.

First, try to be a good listener for your friends. Sometimes it is hard to listen to something that we do not like, so you will be very appreciated when you give your time for listening to what people talk to you, even though if you do not like what they talk about. Be patient to face people around you; try to understand them.

When they ask for any opinion or suggestion to you, give the best answer you can give. Try to be wise, since it means they trust you. But if they do not ask for anything to you, do not give your opinion or judge them, because sometimes people just need to be listened to.

Second, try to remember and call their names well. It is a small thing but has great effect and many people often forget to do. A name is something personal and someone will be so appreciated when you call them well as his name since it shows that you remember him.

Third, keep your words. People would not be interested to you if you speak harshly or negatively. Say something positive. It is better if you speak wisely and has inspiration for others to think or do something positive.

Next is being helpful. Whenever your friends need your help and as long as you are able to help them, why do not you help them? People will remember you for every kind thing you have done for them. And you also feel a special happiness after helping them.

Five is saying sorry when you make mistake. It is normal for human being to have any fault and doing some mistakes, intentionally or unintentionally. Do not worry or be ashamed to say sorry from the deepest of your heart to them. And of course, when people have some mistakes to you, try to forgive them, so you will live in peace with every one.

Last but not least, give your smile and try to be cheer up. A smile has positive effects for every body, so when you smile at them, you make them comfort and feel that they are accepted. You look full of spirit and it gives positive energy to people around you. Smile, then the whole world will smile to you.

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Oct 29

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What’s up life?

Hi there! Honestly, I have nothing interesting to write about. My school is pretty the same. Same old routine and stuff.

Oh! I hope we get to have a decent sem. break. I was told or so the others that our school will just have 5 days of sem. break! What the heck?! I mean why!?!? We needed that break! For god’s sake!

I hope that’s not the school’s final decision or so god help me! :(

Oct 26

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Funny moment with my sister

I was in the mood to do nasty stuff on my big sister that day. Hahaha! As you all know, my sister doesn’t like big roads and speeding cars. She’s infact a bit afraid to cross the lanes. So when we decided to withdraw her money (which requires crossing lanes), I played a simple prank on her. Haha!

It was funny I tell you! If you guys were only there. I speed up my walk and left my sister at the sidewalk! LOL. She was like shocked! But then of course, I wouldn’t leave her alone there staring at me like she saw a ghost. Haha! Being the good little sister that I am, I went back to the sidewalk with her. LOL. (It’s a good thing she didn’t yelled at me!).

Oct 21

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Friends do make up

Well… Im happy today because me and I (misaki) are friends again… first my close friend said to me “I have to make it up to her” so I did what I had to do and then everything is history!

Moving on, I have this bestfriend way back in elementary days. I already miss her, we never even talk hmm.. It was just recently we talked and hang out together.

I’m really busy today b’coz im reviewing for my exam on monday.. I hope I can get a high grade.. ahihi :cry: wenk… and sorry for my old theme. I’m trying to make a new one.

Oct 15

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what makes a good friend?

Interesting right? Check this out! I found this over the www.

Good friendship counts!

Being a good friend is not just about having a good time with others, it’s also about how willing you are to put your friends first or point out when they’re doing something you don’t agree with. Have a read through the following checklist and see how good a friend you really are.

Are you a good listener?

Part of being a good friend is about being willing to listen rather than just talk. This takes time and effort but if you can make time just to listen to others and respect what they have to say, then it’s a sign of a good friend.

Are you approachable?

Do your friends often turn to you first to share a problem or seek help? Are you willing to make yourself available to friends at short notice and welcome them if they turn up at your door?

Are you trustworthy?

If a friend tells you something personal are you good at keeping it in confidence, or do you go and tell everyone at the first opportunity? People need to know that they can trust a friends with important information and you will only store up trouble for yourself if you are seen as unreliable. A good friend is both trustworthy and reliable.

Do you avoid gossiping about others?

This is one of the biggest signs of a good friend and really does stand out. Do you avoid speaking badly about others or spreading rumors in order to hurt them? Do you defend friends when you hear others gossiping about them? If you avoid gossiping others will notice how different you are and soon realize what a truly good friend you are.

Are you selfless rather than selfish?

Do you put your friends needs above your own? Do you try to find a compromise if you can’t agree with a friend? Are you willing to do something your friend wants to do for a change rather than forcing them to do what you want? If you are willing to put your friends first in most things then this is a sign of a good friend.

Can you sensitively tell a friend what you really think?

Good friends don’t just go with the flow, sometimes they have to be honest and tell someone what they really think. Sometimes your friends might want to do something that is morally wrong or illegal or just plain unfair on another person. Are you able to tell your friend honestly what you think about it, without just going along with it? The sign of a good friendship is when you can be totally honest with the other person, without them being offended because they know you have their best interests at heart.

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